Friday, September 30, 2011

4:1

If there is one thing I've learned after a year of parenting, it's that the more help the better. I have nothing but respect for single parents because there is NO WAY I could ever do it alone. In fact, I think the ideal scenario is more like a 4:1 ratio of competent adults to young child.

A couple of weeks ago, Ryan's parents came to visit, which gave us the perfect 4:1 capacity ratio. Of course we love catching up with them, but the real treat is that Patty and John want to take care of Arlo all the time, and they are eager to babysit so Ryan and I can enjoy a night out. After the Patricks leave, we realize how spoiled we are to have them. Sigh...

 Must have been a tense moment during a Sounders game.


 Grandma Patty blowing bubbles with Arlo.


A sunny day at Woodland Park Zoo with friends, Amy and Wyatt


My favorite picture from the trip!


Grandpa John showing Arlo the elephants.


During their visit, Patty and John bought Arlo a walker for his birthday and started a training regime to help Arlo learn how to walk. If this video is any indication, it won't be long until Arlo is running around the house like a maniac.

   

Enjoying freedom while it lasts...

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Trick and Seasonal Treats

First the trick part of today's post. Arlo is getting more fun by the day. We officially entered the phase where we make him do tricks for entertainment purposes. He can high five, wave, shake his head (incidentally, we can't tell if it also means no or is for dancing purposes only), clap, and show us how big he is. Needless to say, it's the cutest thing we've ever seen.

 
"How big is Arlo?"


And now, the seasonal treats. Summer arrived late in Seattle this year, but we are thrilled it's sticking around for a little while. Today, it was a perfect 83 degrees with no humidity. Awww...
Since we were going to eat on our deck, I felt a little inspired to cook a meal with parts influenced by an episode of No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain. Now, I know what you may be thinking, "Anthony Bourdain is a d-bag." Well, you're probably right. I don't know the guy, but he does flaunt a rough around the edges personality (or persona?) on his travel/food show. He also called Paula Deen "the worst, most dangerous person to America.

The truth is, Bourdain makes part of his living by saying extreme things that have a grain of truth, and as an opinionated person, I respect that. Paul Deen does embody a lot of what's wrong with us, myself included. She eats too much. She cooks food in fat, fat, and more fat. She has created a food empire with a wholesome down-home face, all the while completely disregarding or ignoring the corporate machine that supports her "brand" and makes our food, something we all need to survive, fundamentally unhealthy and unsustainable. 

Maybe it's the uptight northerner in me, but I'm a Bourdain fan. He is a jerk, but he can also admit when he's wrong and make fun of himself easily. He doesn't seem to appreciate vegetarianism, but I respect the way he treats meat and food on his show, which is to say that he seems to connect to places where people, either because of need or culinary training, use every part of an animal and know where their food comes from.

But enough of that little tangent and back to the food. Bourdain went to Rome, and in an early scene of the episode, sat down at an outdoor table in a little restaurant to have a local pasta dish. He briefly described the dish, which was a simple spaghetti pasta with a sauce of pasta water, olive oil, salt and pepper and was served in a parmesan "cup." It looked amazing and the scene has stayed with me for months. 

Cut to today when I was appreciating all the fresh tomatoes in the garden and (late) summer bounty. I knew I wanted to make a simple Caprese salad with tomatoes, fresh basil, good mozzarella, olive oil, salt and pepper. However, I didn't want to make a heavy entree since it was warm outside. So, I decided to take a crack at the dish Bourdain chowed down in Rome. It was so simple and so good. I highly recommend it. 

Making parmesan cups was as easy as 1...


2...


3.


I took a block of parmesan and shredded it with a microplane (if you don't have one in your kitchen, you really need one) into two thin piles, about 6 inches in diameter is best, on a baking sheet. I suggest using parchment paper or something to keep it from sticking like mine did. The, I baked the cheese at 400 degrees until it was bubbling and was just starting to brown. Immediately after taking the sheet out of the oven, I used a spatula to form the cheese into a cup shape by putting it in a muffin tin. I don't recommend this for two reasons: 1. the cup is pretty small for a serving of spaghetti (I lean more toward a Paula Deen serving than a normal serving), and 2. you can get the right size up by putting a large-ish ladle on top of the cheese and curling the edges up. No need to dirty a muffin tin.

 Tomatoes from the garden with basil, mozzarella, olive oil, salt, and pepper. Beautiful and delicious.


Finished product (just add wine)

 For the spaghetti, I used a few ladles of the pasta water (always cook your pasta in salted water, by the way), olive oil, salt, pepper, shredded parmesan, a little leftover basil, and a squeeze of lemon juice. It was divine!

Proof it was good.

Saturday, September 3, 2011

5 Years of Wedded Bliss

For the annual "Happy Anniversary" post, I like to share photos from our wedding. We look so young and fit and well-rested. It's a funny thing when you've been married long enough to notice the difference between then and now.


I am so lucky to have such a wonderful man in my life. Love you, Ryan!

Friday, September 2, 2011

Happy Birthday, Arlo!

As the cliche goes, time flies when you're having fun. Arlo is officially 1-year old. Ryan and I can't believe it.

I don't know why it seems like time evaporates as we get older. Apparently, the phenomenon of feeling like time goes by faster as we age is a common belief shared by humans regardless of culture or nationality. One theory is that when you are experiencing a "first" of something, then your memory of those new experiences goes in slow motion.

While this theory probably has more nuances, I don't think the memories of my first year as a parent, which has been chock-full of new experiences, can honestly be described as "slow motion." On the contrary, they seem more like a series of flashes much like a strobe light: Arlo's birth, the first week (a.k.a. hell week), his first bath, sitting up, eating solid food for the first time, laughing and crying, crawling, soccer practice, my first day back at work, his first Halloween and Christmas, his first plane ride, long road trips, meeting friends and family for the first time.

I wish I could remember every detail forever, but I guess that's why living in the present is the only way to reach enlightenment.

We didn't want to do much for his first birthday for a couple of reasons: 1. we're lazy, 2. Arlo will have no recollection of his first birthday, and 3. we didn't want to set a high bar for future birthday parties. How lame would it be if your first birthday was you best birthday?

So we bypassed much of the fuss and had a small group of friends and family over for dinner. Since we weren't going nuts with balloons, a petting zoo, or a bouncy castle thing, we decided to have some good food. We made grilled pizzas, a fresh salad, and homemade S'mores cupcakes.

S'mores Cupcake
Yeah, that is my A-game.


Graham cracker crust, thin layer of dark chocolate, chocolate cupcake and marshmallow frosting.


I think the cupcakes were a hit. At least Xander liked them...


... and Ava too!


Arlo didn't really know what to do with the cupcake at first.


But he quickly figured it out.


Arlo has a sweet tooth like his Mama.


Although he wanted to shove the entire thing in his mouth at once, Arlo quickly learned the benefits of taking your time and making a mess.


The party scene.


I can't believe how much has changed this year, and I'm sure there will just as many, if not more, changes in the year to come. As always, we will keep you (blog) posted!